Posts Tagged Change
Treat people as they are and they will remain as they are.
Treat people as they can and should be and they will
become as they can and should be.
I believe God wants you to know…
…that change cannot be avoided in life. So do not resist change, embrace it.
Life is changing all the time — and certainly the day-to-day conditions on our planet are changing
now in ways we could not have expected — so the fact of change is real, and very present.
Our invitation from life is to not let changes get us down, but to lift ourselves up, and move past them.
Neale Donald Walsch (Conversations With God)
Since we all take our choices very seriously, adopting this new attitude requires a major shift. Today, you can begin with a simple exercise. Sit down for a few minutes and reassess some of the important choices you’ve made over the years.
Take a piece of paper and make two columns labeled “Good Choice” and “Bad Choice.” Under each column, list at least five choices relating to those moments you consider the most memorable and decisive in your life so far – you’ll probably start with turning points shared by most people, but be sure to include private choices that no one knows about except you.
Once you have your list, think of at least one good thing that came out of the bad choices and one bad thing that came out of the good choices. This is an exercise in breaking down labels, getting more in touch with how flexible reality really is.
If you pay attention, you may be able to see that not one but many good things came from your bad decisions while many bad ones are tangled up in your good decisions.
No single decision you ever made has led in a straight line to where you find yourself now. You peeked down some roads and took a few steps before turning back. You followed some roads that came to a dead end and others that got lost at too many intersections.
Ultimately, all roads are connected to all other roads. So break out of the mindset that your life consists of good and bad choices that set your destiny on an unswerving course. Your life is the product of your awareness. Every choice follows from that, and so does every step of growth.
Adapted from The Book of Secrets, by Deepak Chopra (Harmony Books, 2004).